Tag: life

The Joy of Hobbies

“My father comes from this classic English amateur tradition, where you should do lots of things and none of them well.”

This came from Malcolm Gladwell in conversation with Robert Krulwich on the excellent Radiolab. It’s not one of Gladwell’s more famous quotes, but it is among my favourites because it resonates with me very strongly. Although it’s not my father I’m thinking about in reference to this quote, but me.

I love hobbies, and I have had many. I find lots of things fascinating, and enjoyable, and so I find myself taking short, deep dives into many different topics and pastimes.

Currently I am flying power kites, working on a kit car, and (though this is notionally a business it currently lacks the revenue to justify that grouping) looking to launch an atheist T-shirt brand. I am working my way through the collected essays of Richard Dawkins, and the complete history of 90s sci-fi series Dark Angel. This is all alongside my more long-term hobbies: the usual fiction, films and music, snowboarding, cooking, gadgets and general geekery, and DIY.

In each of these things I acquire knowledge and skills to a greater or lesser standard, but I will never be truly expert at any of them. That, as Gladwell has asserted in his book Outliers, would take 10,000 hours practice or study.

But do I need to be expert to enjoy these things? Not at all. There’s a huge amount of reward to be had from achieving even basic competence or understanding. If it matters to you (and I concede that it probably does to me) just having that basic level of competence sets you apart from 99% of the rest of the population. More importantly, it gives you a connection with each member of the 1% who do have those things as their primary hobby or focus.

I’m hoping that my kids share my desire to learn about lots of different areas. I’m looking forward to taking them horse-riding, ice skating, clay pigeon shooting, fishing (if my vegetarian wife will let me), to galleries and museums, libraries and workshops. Better that than pushing them to excel in a single discipline (unless they want to).

After all, most of us will eventually spend at least 10,000 hours becoming expert in something: work. If you are over the age of 25, chances are you have already invested 10,000 hours in developing your career skills and knowledge. Unfortunately the working day for most of us is so varied that it takes much longer than that before we can nail a single specific skill to expert level.

But at 32, I’m pleased to say I’m pretty confident in one or two aspects of my typical working day. And that is quite enough expertise for me.

I want to get paid for being me: fulfilling the dream of the portfolio career

I’ve just started working portfolio-style for the second time in my career. What does this mean? Well, it means that I am interested in doing lots of different things, and that I am good enough at some of them for people to pay me. Rather than have one job that I go to each day, as I have for the past three years or so, I divide my time between an array of freelance contracts, side projects and individual engagements. And its bloody marvellous.

This isn’t so daunting for me this time around as I’ve done it before. In 2005 I left the safety of full time employment and launched headlong into the freelance life, albeit with a contract already in place that would more than tide me over. With the bills covered I spent my remaining time experimenting with other ideas: I began offering other types of marketing service, built up a network of marketing services suppliers, launched a home IT support business and became a blogger and commentator on all things tech.

Back then I didn’t really plan to change what I was doing. I liked the freedom of the portfolio approach. But the grass is always greener and all that, and so before long ambition and the added impetus from a friend and business partner drove me to turn one part of my portfolio into a full time job. What was me doing consultancy became two of us as small agency. Then came the first employee, then came a buyout and soon we were part of a larger business and I was back to a normal job again.

That’s how I spent the last three years pretty much, until the grass became greener again and I decided that I missed the freelance life. I missed the variety, the option to run with the various opportunities that present themselves, and the ability to bunk off on a Wednesday afternoon and go fly my kite. With my daughter growing up fast, the opportunity to spend more time with her also weighed into the decision.

Having returned to portfolio working I am convinced it was the right decision. And this time it’s even better. In the last few years I have learned a lot, and so have more to offer prospective customers for my various services. I also better understand the processes I need to establish in order to make my working life profitable and efficient.

I intend for work, the life of a portfolio worker, and the balance between life and work to be a big part of this blog. I hope to be able to offer some decent advice and share my experiences of the highs and lows of portfolio working. As you may have guessed, in a nicely circular flourish, this blog is now a part of my portfolio.

The New Man Blog: Live at Last

Man Blog is something I have been planning for quite some time. There have been a couple of short-lived attempts to get it off the ground, but it is finally here. A properly built blog with a sensible objective and a commitment of my time to make sure it is a living, breathing thing.

The brief I’ve given myself for Man Blog is pretty broad: there are lots of things I want to write about, in part as a means of structuring my own thoughts, and in part because I’m interested in joining the conversations around those topics. The only unifying theme is the question of what it means to be a man in the 21st century – or more accurately the questions:

  • What are we for?
  • Who should we be?
  • How should we behave, and…
  • What is our future?

I doubt I will answer any of these questions, or even that there are any universal answers, but in amongst the talk of food, cars, politics, science, life and love, I hope to at least share some insights or spark some thoughts.